Tuesday, October 2, 2007

i belive in soulmates

My definition of a soul mate is someone that you can talk to and never have to explain what you mean. Someone who can tell what you are feeling simply by a word that you use in conversation, or by a mere tone in your voice, someone who will never judge you, someone who understands you completely. When you talk to that person, they bring you peace, and you are a better person because you know them.

I dont believe there is only one person in the world for someone. I believe that each person has a few people in the world who could potentially be the one. Its a matter of timing, whether their paths will cross at the right time.

Maybe there are even twenty different people in this world who you are destined to be with but because your paths dont cross at the right time, youll never find out. It's like that watch commercial where the guy is supposed to bump into the woman he was gonna marry and have kids with, but instead, he was a little late and never had a chance to meet her.

And its such a shame when you do meet that person and dont take the chance. For instance, if you are in a relationship (happy or unhappy, it doesnt matter, youre already involved with someone) and you meet someone else who youre attracted to and who is compatible with you in every way.

Would you take the chance and leave the relationship youre in? I cant say for all people, but most of my friends wouldnt leave the relationship they're in. Why? Because they've dedicated so much time and effort into the relationship to throw it all away for someone whom they've just met and for a relationship that they dont know the outcome of.

However, for someone to even consider leaving their boyfriend or girlfriend for someone new, I think the decision has already been made because if you were really happy in a relationship, you wouldnt even think of leaving him/her for someone else.

I do believe in SoulMates. I believe that there is someone that you can truly connect with on levels that other people just can't understand.

I guess what Im trying to say is don't stay in a relationship that you're not completely happy being in because there could be someone else out there who suits you better.

Unfortunately, I believe that you do not always end up being with your soul mate. But YES..I believe.

2 comments:

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Wow, you're very philosophical in your post now. He, he, (kakapanibago, he ,he) Soul mate means soul recognition or recognizing a person even if that's the first time you just saw him. Soul mate means knowing deep inside you that the person in front of you will be your mate for life. Soul mate means you understand each other perfectly well even if not even a single word has been uttered yet between the two of you. Soul mate means waiting for the right one to come even if if takes a lifetime of waiting. (Naks parang movie yun a, ala Maruja)Soul mate means sticking with the person for life even if you find him not that attractive anymore as when you first saw him. (Ano ka sinuswerte. Gusto mo feeling hunk palagi ang jowa mo?)Hay, pagod na ako. Sige na. Babayu. God bless palagi. Kapag bigla pala akong nawala sa ciruclation,, don't worry, I'm just undergoing a very severe trial. Kung lang naman.

Miss Kurdapya said...

kuya mel,

i told you.. this is the other side of kurdapya.. masama nasasapian ng english language! At kung ano ano naiisip ko!

I simply love your definition of soulmate and how you describe it! swak na swak ika nga!

Waaa.. i will miss you.. kaya mo yan!.. ikaw pa? you're the one who gave me all the strength and encouragements during the time when i'm so down and frustrated in life...I would never forget it!..God Bless!